Welcome to the world of life after EX. Perhaps for now that is EX without the S. "Breakup" is a 7 letter word that neutralizes sensuality, undermines confidence, erases passion. But not for ever. Spice up your EX life starting now, breathe, relax, feel your senses. Get your passionate side humming again without focusing on sex itself. Great food, beautiful textiles, sensuous nature, books, movies, theatre, and people. People inject sensory experience into your life that is far more enduring than a sexual moment. Intimacy is a state of mind. Being a 'sexy' ex is about shimmer, sparkle and all things shiny - and that starts with your mind - that is where every thought, every sensory experience begins - so widen the definition of sex and you never know what that glow will attract.